Coming of Age

Potty-training, baby teeth, diapers, toys, first words, and preschool. These were the beginning stages of life. As children, we were constantly dependent on our parents. We looked up to them because we knew that they are able to feed each and every one of our needs. Unfortunately, our entire dependence on them doesn't last forever. We eventually grow up and learn how to face life on our own. Once we receive our driver's license or once we turn 18, we will have realized that it is our turn. In our society, coming of age is the time when an adolescent finally enters the world of adulthood and learns to step up to the plate to take on new challenges.

Just a few years ago, I was nothing but a mere little girl. One who had much to learn and no experience. Although I was successful in school, I didn't take much pride in it. I only did what I was told and did nothing more. In my home, strict rules were reinforced and I had to follow them. Each day, I had to make sure that I finished all my vegetables and ate fruits right after dinner. Sleep was also an essential in my growth. Although I wasn't tired, I was forced to take a nap in the afternoon. My mom also had to assist me in my hygiene. She made sure that I flossed and moisturized. I disliked the feeling of sunscreen on my skin, but it was for my own protection. At a young age, I really wanted to roam around and be free, but I was very unaware of the dangers the outside world would bring.

On the very day I realized I was about to step into high school, my outlook on life changed dramatically. There was more to life than fun play and games. As humans, we learn by trial and error. So, I recognized that each day was a test, an obstacle rather, that we needed to overcome. The mene mac program helped me greatly. All of the projects that we have done, especially KC3 and Ecybermission introduced me to all the events that has been happening in society. I began to become aware of all the troubles that was occurring. From global warming to the oil spill, from furlough days to unemployment, and from incurable diseases to death. Realizing this gave me the opportunity to take the initiative and use my time wisely for community service. I also realized that it all begins with me and what I want to do to make a difference.

Not only have I come in recognition with this, but I began to see how near my future was. Only 3 years of high school left and I'm on my own. With this, the importance of school became evident to me. I took the initiative to visit the College and Career Center for some advice and guidance. I also set a resolution for myself to begin taking life seriously. I made my decision of becoming a registered nurse. So, I chose Health Services Core as an elective to help me prep for the medical field. However, I also wanted to be well-rounded and open to other pathways that I was interested in. I continued my membership in the mene mac program, took Japanese as an elective, and decided on joining at least two clubs this year. Thanks to CAP, I was able to pre-select the classes for my junior and senior years and have set goals that I want to achieve before and after I graduate. With all my dedication seeming to be focused entirely in school, I also have commitments outside. I managed to make time for myself, friends, family, and church.

I don't want to take the easy way out of high school because that will do me no good for my future. By being more involved and fulfilling all of my commitments will help me prepare well for my future. Although I may stumble along the way, I will try to find a way to "get back up."